“You who have followed me” in Matthew 19:28 doesn’t include the 70 disciples or any of the women. It only refers to the 12. Yeshua seemed to have at least three distinct spheres of disciples: the 12, the 70, and a general group of disciples who came and went. His female disciples *might* have been included in the 70, but I don't think historical sources would support that. Rather they appear to have been in this third sphere or else were something like an auxiliary.