Too often, couples have a self-centered perspective on marriage, focused only on what they should be receiving from their spouse. But marriage cannot flourish in a self-centered environment. Having a blessed marriage that glorifies God means being attentive to your spouse's needs before your own. And as a general principle, when you focus on loving and serving your spouse, you'll often find that they will be willing to reciprocate. "Whoever brings blessing will be enriched, and one who waters will himself be watered" (Proverbs 11:25).