A foolish son is trouble for his father, and a quarrelsome wife is constant dripping.
Proverbs 19:13 TLV

This isn't addressed to the son or the wife, but to the father and husband. It is vital to your future happiness that you bring up children you can like and be proud of.

That's not an option for a wife. There's very little you can do to change the character of an adult and it's usually wiser and better for your relationship not to try. You're better off choosing a good wife to begin with. Get to know her mother and her family because that will tell you a lot about who she will become.