There are three things a believer should always remember:
1. The life in front of you and the eternal life ahead of you are more important than the life behind you.
2. Ask yourself if what you are doing today will please Yahuah and will get you closer to where you want to be tomorrow.
3. Don't punish yourself and be a prisoner of your past, it was just lessons and not a life sentence. See that lessons as stepping stones to something better. Thus, stay focused, stay motivated and remember we will always be stronger as believers, united as one in the Body of Moshiach.