Our community has a bad habit of developing a feel-sorry-for-myself-martydom complex. Where getting rejected becomes our identity that makes us feel righteous. Spuring us to look for the differences between us so that we can daily reestablish our martydom as the "only one who knows the truth". This is not of Yah.

Love your brothers and sisters in Messiah. Learn what's worth dividing over and what is good healthy debate/discussion. Embrace the opportunities to sharpen your iron with iron.