Messiah was not nice to people who were carnally minded. Unless we are spiritually minded and savor the things of Elohim, laying down our life we are off base.
Matthew 16:23-26 TLV
[23] But He turned and said to Peter, “Get behind Me, satan! You are a stumbling block to Me, for you are not setting your mind on the things of God, but the things of men.” [24] Then Yeshua said to His disciples, “If anyone wants to follow after Me, he must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow Me. [25] For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it. [26] For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world but forfeits his soul? Or what will a man give in exchange for his soul?
https://bible.com/bible/314/mat.16.23-26.TLV