Not Peace, but a Sword
Mat 10:34  Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword. 
Mat 10:35  For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law. 
Mat 10:36  And a man's foes shall be they of his own household. 
Mat 10:37  He that loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. 
Mat 10:38  And he that takes not his cross, and follows after me, is not worthy of me. 
Mat 10:39  He that finds his life shall lose it: and he that loses his life for my sake shall find it.