The security asked of Judah by Tamar was extraordinary. Why did he agree to this? Remember, when something in the story seems out of place, look deeper. . . Ring, cord/bracelet, and staff are symbols of authority. Three times, Tamar asked to hold Judah's authority in her hands. Jacob gave her what she wanted and brought shame on himself and his house.

Failure to control your impulses will give your impulses control over you.