If we as women of God, want our children and our grandchildren saved... we must first line up with the word of God . Is it easy ??? No , but we must resist the devil , violently resist him, and he has to flee and yes I'm speaking of that flesh devil inside of us that wants our own way . You can LOOK like the holiest woman on earth but if you don't submit to your husband , if you constantly usurp his God given authority .... We need to check our salvation. God help me first ..... the bible does not say if he's a perfect man obey him, or if he does everything right in your eyes obey him. It just says he's the HEAD AND CHRIST IS HIS HEAD . SO...when we dishonor our husband we dishonor Christ !!!!! And that is the WORD !!!