Conflict between people destroys, yet competition can build when applied properly. Ecclesiastes 4:4, “I saw that all labor and success spring from a man’s envy of his neighbor. This too is futile and a pursuit of the wind.” When envy is the cause of success it causes conflict, but when competition that builds each other up to be the best we can be is healthy. When children play games they build thinking skills and physical skills, they also learn about being part of a team and helping each other be better at what they are doing. conflict destroys because one places self above all else.