A gracious woman gets honor, and aggressive men get riches.
#proverbs 11:16

The behaviors generally required to reach the highest levels of achievement are different for men and women. Most women who try to act like men are called bi--hy for a reason. It doesn't work for them, and everyone instinctively knows it. Men who try to act like women are also called bi--hy and for the same reason. Masculine, aggressive women are usually--not always!--angry and petty. Feminine, passive men are repulsive, whatever the reasons for their behavior.