Improving Communication Skills

References;
1 John 3:1 / Matthew 6:6 / Hebrews 11:6 (AMP) / Ephesians 5:13 (AMP) / Proverbs 4:23 / Ephesians 4:15 / Proverbs 18:21 / James 3:5, 6 (Message) / James 3:9-16 (Message) / James 3:17, 18 / Ephesians 4:29 (NIV) / Psalm 45:1 (AMP) / Proverbs 3:3 (AMP) / Proverbs 8:6-8 (AMP) / Proverbs 10:20, 21 (AMP) / Proverbs 31:26 (AMP) / Romans 8:31-39 (NIV) / Hebrews 2:11 (NIV) / John 15:15 (NIV) / John 14:26 / Revelations 12:11

Abba, I am Your child. Yeshua is that if I pray to You in secret, You will reward me openly. Abba, I desire with all my heart to walk in love, but I am ever sabotaging my own efforts and failing in my relationships. I know that without faith, it is impossible to please and be satisfactory to You. I am coming near to You, believing that You exist and that You are the Rewarder of those who earnestly, and diligently seek You. Uncover me and bring everything to light. When anything is exposed and reproved by the Light, it is made visible and clear, and where everything is visible and clear, there is Light. Heal the past wounds and hurts that have controlled my behaviour and my speech. Teach me to guard my heart with diligence, for out of it flows the very issues of life. Teach me to speak the truth in love in my home, on social media, with my friends and in all my relationships. Also help me realise that others have a right to express themselves. Help me to make room for their ideas and their opinions even when they are different than mine. Words are powerful. The power of a life and death is in the tongue and You said that I would eat the fruit of it. Abba, I realised that words can be creative or destructive. A word out of my mouth may seem no account, but it can accomplish nearly anything -- or destroy it! A careless or wrongly placed word out of my mouth can set off a forest fire. By my speech I can ruin the world, turn harmony into chaos, throw mud on a reputation, sent a whole world up in smoke, and go up in that smoke with it -- smoke right from the pit of hell! And that is scary! Abba, forgive me for speaking curses. I react out of the past hurts and unresolved anger. At times, I am dogmatic, even boasting that I am wise; sometimes unknowingly I have twisted the truth to make myself sound wise, at times, I have tried to look better than others, or to get the better of another; my words have contributed to things falling apart. My human anger is misdirected and works unrighteousness. Abba, forgive me. I cannot change myself, but I am willing to change and walk in the wisdom that is from above. Abba, I submit to that wisdom from above that begins with a holy life and is characterised by getting along with others. It is gentle and reasonable, overflowing with mercy and blessings; not different day by day and not two-faced. Use me as Your instrument to develop a healthy, robust community that lives right with You. I will enjoy its results only if I do the hard work of getting along with others, treating them with dignity and honour. With the help of Ruach HaKodesh and by Your Grace, I will not let any unwholesome talk come out of my mouth, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. My heart overflows with a goodly theme; I address my psalm to You, my King. My tongue is like a pen of a ready writer. Mercy and kindness shut out all hatred and selfishness, and truth shuts out all deliberate hypocrisy or falsehood. I speak excellent and princely things; and the opening of my lips shall be for the right things. My mouth shall utter truth and wrongdoing is detestable and loathsome to my lips. All the words of my mouth are righteous; there is nothing contrary to truth or crooked in them. My tongue is as choice silver and my lips feed and guide many. I open my mouth in skilful and godly wisdom and my tongue is law of kindness. Abba, thank You for loving me unconditionally. I thank You for sending Your Son Yeshua, to be my Adonai and Saviour and for giving me Your Ruach Kodesh to teach me and to bring all things to my remembrance. I am an overcomer by the Blood of the Lamb and by the word of my testimony. In the Name of Yeshua I pray, amen.