I have heard women decide that physical attraction was more important to them than the bible and salvation in yeshua in a man's life. They got with the man they were most physically attracted to, instead of the law man of yah, and then complained about the man they got with and asked them for a divorce after infidelity/cheating and abuse... So you put cards on the table saying: wealthy, success, fame, attractive, strong, etc, and salvation+ the bible. The woman I have seen chose the others and not the salvation bible card. They thought they could fix the man who had the worldly qualities. Men have made the same choice.