Proverbs 15:21, “A man without wisdom enjoys being foolish. But a man with understanding does what is right.” Keep this in mind when you get together with family and friends and that “one person” is trying to stir up trouble. You may have a teachable moment and it may be for that “one person” or it may be for the rest of the group. There is no one size fits all response for this, each situation will be different. If you are given the words to speak say what needs to be said in love and kindness.