Note then the kindness and the severity of God: severity toward those who have fallen, but God's kindness to you,
➡️provided you continue in his kindness.⬅️
➡️Otherwise you too will be cut off. ⬅️
Romans 11:22 ESV

God’s kindness is manifested in his eager desire to forgive, heal, and restore, and in his forbearance to condemn. His severity is manifested in his willingness to exile, inflict suffering, and even to eternally condemn if it becomes necessary.

God is love, but he is also vengeance. Never mistake love for niceness. God is loving and kind, but he is not nice in the sense that he always wants you to feel good. He will hurt your feelings and crush your very bones if it could drive you or your neighbor to repentance.