A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
Proverbs 15:1 ESV
Regarding the soft answer, consider Jacob's approach to Esau in Genesis 32, .Gideon's flattery of Ephraim in Judges 8, and Abigail saving her family from David in 1 Samuel 25.
Regarding the harsh answer, consider Jephthah being too honest to Ephraim in Judges 12, David provoking Goliath to pride in 1 Samuel 17, and Yeshua's rebuke of the Pharisees in Luke 4.
There's a time for both.
I am not worthy of the least of all the deeds of steadfast love and all the faithfulness that you have shown to your servant, for with only my staff I crossed this Jordan, and now I have become two camps.
Genesis 32:10
Jacob left Canaan with just a staff and returned as two hosts of people. The flock grows as the shepherd is ready. The transformation wasn't magic, though. He worked for twenty years before he was able to return home.
Anointing doesn't automatically bring success in business or ministry. You still have to go out and earn what God has given. God can't do His best for us if we aren't doing our best for Him. Obedience brings blessing.
Jacob showed wisdom in dividing his camp as he neared Esau and sending gifts ahead of him. Many small good deeds over time can be more powerful than one great favor. Esau expected anger from Jacob, but found love instead. A gentle answer turns away wrath.
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